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Like everything else in life, child education is a tightrope walk between strictness and letting loose. Drifting off either way causes more problems than it solves. But of course what sounds clear and obvious in theory is much harder to actually apply practically.

The suggestions here are no rules to follow, they’re mere guidelines and should animate own thoughts and ideas. After all, it’s up to you what you think is best.

During the first six month of its life, a baby won’t yet be able to understand the connection between “bad behaviour” and punishment. What it really needs during that time is care and loving, to tighten the emotional bounds to its parents.

Nevertheless, even a baby that small is fully capable of repeating actions that lead to a pleasant result. So if any sob makes you appear immediately on the cradle, you’ll find that you have a miniature dictator soon who keeps you up and running with joy.

Between seven and fourteen months, children normally start testing their limits. This results from a growth in both mobility and stubbornness, so what’s being put on test are the parents’ patience with keeping their little ones from exploring, often eating and probably destroying the reachable parts of the household and for how long they can get away with it.

Babies at that age start challenging their parents by stubborn disobedience, but that should not lead to punishment. Be firm and persistent in telling and showing them what they’re not supposed to do, but don’t be rude or harsh. Their concentration usually doesn’t last, so distraction is a great weapon. They still need a lot of love, and your reward will be a happy time with a sometimes annoying, but mostly very cute baby.

Going towards an age of two years, the obstinacy takes often a negative direction: “No” is the preferred answer to all “propositions” ranging from eating and choice of toys to taking a bath and going to sleep.

Discipline can become considerably harder to apply, but is vital to steer the course of your child’s further development. It has to learn that the authority and decision is with the parents. Still, love and forgiveness is of even importance. Especially the father’s role as an authority for the child and support for his wife can make this period a lot easier.

With increasing mobility, skill and curiosity a child between two and three years can keep its mother constantly busy, taking every moment of silence as an indication of a new disaster involving eating things, messing around with things and getting stuck in things.

This can really add to the load of stress parents already have, and the explosive emotional or even physical reaction might ease the moment, but on the long term increases the problem. So be as relaxed as possible and make sure you’ve got all valuable pieces of household equipment properly secured. When children receive a bump or scratch that’s no drama – turning it into one will just make you and your child over-frightened in the future. Still, with all calmness, don’t miss to tell your child when it did wrong and discipline when it’s overdoing it.

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